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		<title>Underrated coping skill: kudos charts</title>
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				<category><![CDATA[Coping skills]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Anorexia]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[binge eating disorder]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bulimia]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compulsive overeating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[eating disorder]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[eating disorder goals]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[EDNOS]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[goal chart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[goals]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[kudos chart]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is the fourth post in the Grey Thinking series, Five of the most underrated coping skills.
If you don&#8217;t know what a &#8220;kudos chart is&#8221; &#8211; it&#8217;s a sticker chart.  You know those charts that your mom made when you were five that had actions like &#8220;make bed&#8221; and &#8220;brush teeth&#8221; on it?  Yep, those.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>This is the fourth post in the Grey Thinking series, <a title="five of the most underrated coping skills" href="http://greythinking.wordpress.com/2009/10/18/five-of-the-most-underrated-coping-skills/" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/greythinking.wordpress.com/2009/10/18/five-of-the-most-underrated-coping-skills/?referer=');">Five of the most underrated coping skills</a>.</em></p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t know what a &#8220;kudos chart is&#8221; &#8211; it&#8217;s a sticker chart.  You know those charts that your mom made when you were five that had actions like &#8220;make bed&#8221; and &#8220;brush teeth&#8221; on it?  Yep, those.  I heard someone refer to them as &#8220;kudos charts&#8221; on twitter several months back, and since my current chart is not actually using stickers, I&#8217;m going to go with that terminology.</p>
<p>My explanation is simple: a kudos chart worked for me when I was five, and twenty years later it is still a helpful tool.</p>
<p><strong>What kind of things do I have on my kudos chart?</strong></p>
<ol>
<li>Follow meal plan</li>
<li>Take calcium supplement</li>
<li>Get 7+ hours of sleep</li>
<li>Go through the mail</li>
<li>Blog</li>
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<p>That&#8217;s not all, but you get the picture &#8211; it&#8217;s a mixture of eating disorder goals and regular life tasks.  <strong>I never have more than 7 goals</strong>, for three main reasons:</p>
<ol>
<li>then I&#8217;m not really focusing on the important tasks</li>
<li>it gets cumbersome to remember and record too many things</li>
<li>only seven fit on my chart</li>
</ol>
<p>Not only do I get satisfaction of checking off items each day, but at the end of the day / week I add up all my &#8220;kudos&#8221; for my &#8220;kudos score.&#8221;  It&#8217;s a quick and satisfying way to motivate myself&#8230; and I think that other people could definitely benefit from such a tool.</p>
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