
This is, by far, the most interesting article that I’ve read in a long time: Caring for the Chronically Remitting Anorexia Nervosa Patient
According to Dr. Michael Strober, most people who develop anorexia nervosa will not remain in an acute malnourished state throughout their entire lives, although a significant minority of people have varying levels of illness over decades.
I think this highlights an important point — that you can’t be severely malnourished for years. There have to be points of better physical health in there… why? Because something is bound to happen that requires medical attention. I’m not even referring to all the scary medical risks that come with a chronic malnourished condition (passing out, heart attack, etc.)… but at some point you’re going to have to see someone for a birth control prescription, or you’re going to have strep throat and need antibiotics, or have to go to the dentist or something. It’s easy to identify someone who is visibly ill, and any decent professional is going to say something to you.
Maybe being at this low point is the most dangerous time… but it’s also the time you’re most likely to get help. It’s the rest of your life when you’re not dangerously (or as visibly) sick that contributes to chronic anorexia.
Treatment-resistance in anorexia nervosa is best defined by patients with anorexia nervosa who have been unremittingly ill for decades—including those who have made attempts at treatment, yet relapsed—despite exposure to high-quality care. “It is reasonable to say that people who have never had treatment have actively avoided treatment,” Dr. Strober explains. “That does not mean that people with long-term illness deny it or fail to recognize their condition. The overwhelming majority of patients who rationalize their illness will, when pushed, admit that there is something abnormal about their thinking and their behavior.”
These “people with long-term illness” are in limbo — not really sick, but not really well, either. It’s a state of doing “okay enough.” You’re thinking, “Okay, well I’m eating and my weight isn’t dangerous. My vitals and labs are fine. I have friends and more of a life than I used to. Maybe I still obsess over food and worry about my weight, but lots of people in the world do that.” There’s this comparison between where you are right now and where you were at the height of your disorder. Maybe you know you’re not really okay right now… but you’re not sick… so treatment seems unnecessary.
Dr. Strober emphasizes that treatment must be administered through a completely separate framework when working with anorexia nervosa patients who have been ill for long periods of time.
“The discussion of weight gain and approaches to weight have to be very cautious and very deliberate,” says Dr. Strober. “The goal has to be weight maintenance as opposed to weight increase; the patient must be kept socially active to prevent malaise and isolation; clinicians must stress that the goal of care is to stabilize the patient’s condition and to reassure him or her that the issue of weight gain will not be forced.”
This is where I start to disagree with Dr. Strober… I don’t think that treatment needs to be completely different for someone with chronic AN. What, are you going to wait for the patient to feel like she’s okay eating different food or gaining weight? I’ve said it again and again in my posts, but you get stuck in ED limbo — and I think that it takes a significant force to move you out of that state. I had a nutritionist refer to some people as “functional anorexics” — capable of maintaining their disorder, career, and relationships. I almost feel like you need the opposite treatment. You need to be told, “Hello, this is important. I don’t care if you’re functioning and doing ‘well enough’ — you need to take care of this and make it a priority.”
I think that spending 10 years in ED limbo is a clear sign that you are not capable of managing your recovery. Someone else needs to be in charge — there is no way that you can objectively judge your condition. I don’t think that chronic anorexia needs any less aggressive of a treatment plan, but I do think you have to be prepared for more of a fall-out. More panic attacks, resistance, depression, etc. These patients have been holding on to the ED for a long time… but you’re not going to get to a point where you can work through all of that until you push them. More passive treatment is probably the worst that you could do — you’re just going to contribute to the apathy, and eventually the patient is going to include that this treatment (like the previous treatments) is not helpful.
Wow, thanks for this post. I was talking about this with my psychologist the other day, I mentioned that I don’t want to be a middle-aged anorexic someday, and she pointed out that I’m approaching 9 years with the disease already…something I hadn’t really processed. It’s amazing how easy it is to let the years pass under the ED’s thumb when you ARE able to be functional and keep your health stats hovering above imminently life-threatening levels. I think it really sneaks up on a lot of people…great post, thanks for this.
You’ve hit some good points in this post. I think there are so many of us in this “functional” state and just keep kind of trucking along until there is some breaking point or “real” impetus for change. And even with that, it may not be enough.
I agree with you about passive treatment. I’ve seen this type of treatment with a lot of people, and in the end, they’re still holding onto the ED and not really living a life. It leaves those who are watching very frustrated.
As someone who is currently very frustrated with treatment and has been in ED limbo for about 7 years (and has had an eating disorder for about 9), I can really relate to this post, and think that you bring up a lot of excellent points. I know many people with chronic eating disorders who are in treatment, yet are not really getting any better. It seems to me that for them treatment isn’t really doing anything, it has just become something that they do, like going to work. I think this type of passive treatment is actually harmful in some ways because it helps to solidify the eating disorder identity, and that in turn makes it harder to recover. If going to see a therapist every week is routine, not interfering with work or friends and not challenging, where is the motivation to change (especially if you like your therapist)?
Thanks for making me think more deeply about long-term eating disorders; my own ED was much briefer (about 4 years from onset to recovery), so I’m not as personally knowledgeable about what EDs can look like 5, 8, even 10 or 20 years down the line. However, I DO know a number of women who arrived at my college in 2001 with eating disorders and have not recovered from them to this day (more than seven years late). Your article makes me wonder what kind of dynamics are motivating — or not — their recovery.
Also, who is to say that people with chronic eating disorders will ever accept treatment to begin with? One of these women that I know is now in medical school (!) and has yet to seek any kind of treatment, as far as I know, because she sees her ED as helping her get as far as she has. Since she is still in the “functional” stage, I doubt that anything short of a heart attack will compel her to seek treatment — a sad fact, indeed, when you consider that she will be seeing patients herself some day.
You can always tell an expert! Thanks for contirubtnig.
I have “lived” with an eating disorder for 44years..During that time every second of every day has been coloured by it.
Anorexia,bulimia,laxative purging, obsessive exercise day and night.
I have gone through life as a slave to this monster master.
I am 58 and recently finished 7years of weekly individual(mainly)therapy with psychotherapists,clinical psychologists, psychiatrists, eating disorder “specialists”……et al et al…
i have sporadic “treatment” throughout my life.
After a few weeks these “appointments” became more social events – the only ones in my isolated life. These people became my friends.
In order to please them I pretended I was getting better..
Unless you have “been there”, it is impossible to know how all-embracing this nasty creeping illness becomes.
I have osteoporosis,Raynauds, hyponatremia, rotten,loose teeth, depression, anxiety and basically have no idea of how to live a “normal” life without this clunking great chain around my neck.
It never goes away……it lurks….and hovers and pounces